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Hardness breaks first
The Tao Te Ching repeatedly returns to images of water, valley, infant, and uncarved wood because they correct the ego's fantasy of control.
Purpose
Show how softness can be a disciplined form of power.
Key takeaway
Softness is not weakness. It is strength that does not waste itself trying to appear strong.
The Tao Te Ching repeatedly returns to images of water, valley, infant, and uncarved wood because they correct the ego's fantasy of control.
Soft power can be recognized by restraint, timing, adaptability, and the ability to remain whole without dominating the room.
One conversation
Where do I perform strength instead of embodying it?
What does restraint protect in this situation?
How can I be firm without becoming rigid?